Re: a comment on Jose Rizal(Our beloved) by Ninoy_Instigator	20-Oct-02/7:32 AM
Exactly what I was thinking when I read the previous comment
Re: Why? by martysmiles	18-Oct-02/2:08 PM
you said funloving, and yes being gay is a crime if you try to obey the bible
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:35 PM
Can I ask how they are machista?
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:32 PM
I specifically said virginity is not important to me, read more carefully. I never said anything about me wanting a virgin for god sake!!!
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:27 PM
Again as I have explained in the other poem, innocence does not mean the exact same thing as virginity. I dont know about her sex life. She is the fantasy of my perfect wife because hell, I can just tell when I look in her face. We are completely in sync with eachother. It has nothing to do with sex. I could care less if she's a virgin or not. She is my thought of a perfect wife because, she has been the only girl in my life that I could ever picture myself actually going through a marriage with, and the only girl I have ever pictured growing old with
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:22 PM
We have already been friends for a long time. The children are not the idea of the whole poem, that is simply a pleasant street dream. Innocence is not always meant to be linked with virginity/having previous lovers. She is innocent in this case because in everything she does, there is no malice, no scheming, no behind the back type of thinking. If there was then yes, that would spoil everything.
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:17 PM
The line before that says "Im better than the scum out there" which illustrates that I want to be there for her so that she wont end up with a scum boyfriend.
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:15 PM
Okay I dont know where in the poem I ever mirrored an image of different gender roles for men and women. I did say I want to protect her though, and that is in the sense of safety-real physical safety. It is not about virginity, it is about providing for her, stuff like that, I don't mind if she gets a job or does anything like that, I dont care what she wears, or anything like that. I dont want to control her life, I just want to be there to protect her when she does need me.
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/9:07 PM
I asked what is wrong in THIS poem! Where does it show ANYWHERE in this poem that I would cage her up. All this poem talks about is how I would work hard for her. Please illustrate to me in this poem where it says I would cage her up
Re: a comment on Dilemma of a Crip by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:59 PM
I know, I know, I have just been under a lot of pressure from my other poem. I don't know why everyone hates me so much for it. The force of the poem has nothing to do with hate, it is all love, but it brought up so much damn tension. Do you think my poems are too soft. I'm not used to this mushy stuff.
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:55 PM
Oh, and hispanics are alot more controlling than Filipinos in history. They came over and invaded our country and colonized us, and forced us into catholicism. Just a tidbit, not too relevant
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:53 PM
Okay, I appreciate that comment, it was true. But you must understand that all cultures have gender roles, it's obvious anthropology. I just want to get it straight that, in this poem I was just trying to get to the point that I am worried about Joanna because of all external forces. I do trust her, but everyone has that worry inside you know? It's sort of like saying I love this person and I know she is the perfect partner, but what were to happen if she was snatched away? what would I do? I dont want to control her lifestyle or nothing, I just want her to know that she is my exclusive interest, and I hope she reciprocates.
Re: a comment on Dilemma of a Crip by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:49 PM
Oh ok, I am sorry I see, that was very clever.
Re: a comment on Dilemma of a Crip by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:31 PM
what'll u do punk
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:29 PM
Okay, and since when are Filipinos known for breeding abusive/controlling husbands? You're generalizing a whole culture.
Re: a comment on A Soldier's Promise by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/8:27 PM
Can I ask everyone something? WHAT DID I DO WRONG IN THIS POEM to make you all shoot at me? Is there something demeaning or cruel that I have wrote in this? I'm saying in this that I will work hard for this girl, and somehow that ties in with being an asshole? please someone explain
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	9-Oct-02/1:08 PM
Okay, this poem has turned into a war zone, I was just trying to express how I feel, but you all are entitled to a point. I'm still going to post more poetry, so I quote Nas in saying "You can hate me now, but I won't stop now." Sorry for expressing my feelings to a girl.
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	8-Oct-02/7:26 PM
this coming from someone who immideately takes the stereotype that all muslims are evil, and loves a poem that condemns Islam. You my friend are a great hypocrite and stereotype. But anyways I still must thank you, for you have given input.
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	7-Oct-02/8:27 PM
what did katie do wrong and what does kowtowing mean?
Re: a comment on Trembling Worry by Ninoy_Instigator	7-Oct-02/8:19 PM
Thank you for your comments, and public, I have a retraction to make. I did not mean that blondes are sluts. What I meant was that I don't want to submit and pant over the same stereotypical girls that my friends pant over immediately. I'm so sorry for anyone who took offense.