when someone asks you a question, and you dont know what to say, you ask what they think, and agree thats not being yourself, its being them, now why would u wanna do that to yourself? just be free do what you want, say what you think, dont copy someone elses life or what they value its not what you like, its not who you are, just be open, treat yourself with a dose of the real you Cause then its like your a poser, then people will like you for who and what you are not just a little advice, i hope you listen to it, although i already like what youve got a personality filled with fun, a way with words that i would die to hear every day so just be yourself, be true to your heart, make your own path and light your way