I was talking to Deep-as-a-puddle the other day, Saying that I was speaking to someone about heaven and hell, "You only talk about that sort of thing with someone you have CONNECTION with" he observed. Ahh the sweet connection! How we wondered what it was and how it was found! We have searched and wondered and searched some more and found that the connection is a strange and wonderful thing: ~It is elusive and hard to find, Maybe under the rug or crouching tiger. ~It is often not where you find the connection but, who you find it with that matters. ~The connection is sometimes like magnetism, opposites attract-look where the sun does not shine! be vigilant. ~You may have the connection with someone but not realise it has been within your grasp all this time. ~You may think you have the connection but actually it has been behind you all this time, so close, yet so far away! ~The grass isn't always greener on the other side, you can spend your life searching for something that will bring you pain! Thats it for now. Thank you all. (also thanks to deep-as-puddle for the input!)