God gives us choices in which we then must choose. He may give signs to guide us, but hard to find are these clues. God presents us with opportunities in which we can be great. Whether we fail or succeed has nothing to do with fate. God surrounds us with people whom which we may fall in love. But the course of our relationships is not determined from above. God blesses us with life, and then sends us on our way. How life goes and when we die is not necessarily his say. It is imperative to understand that we are conducting our own lives. If He exists, He is not with us all the time. So rather than looking up and screaming at the heavens, a verbal assault, Take control of your own life, it's not all God's fault.