With love comes pain, you can't have one without the other. So when you love someone, expect pain. You can't avoid it, no matter how hard you try, it will find you. At time its not so bad, but other times it seems to be unbareable. The thing is that you will get through it. It is all a process, sometimes a short one, other times so long that you feel that it will never end. So when love hurts you, dont give up on it. The pain will go away, and you will love and be loved again. Just never forget that love comes with pain, and you can't have one without the other.