god'swife25 Sep 2002

My dear Dr. Longfellows, please understand that as a father you are just as important to your children as any mother. Especially if your raising daughters. If they don't feel loved and needed by you, they will seek masculine approval by other means, and typically with some guy they know you'd hate just to get back at you. As you can tell I am obsessed with men in general, and with my father in particular. Mostly because my father was emotionally distant. Your daughters need your love approval both physically and emotionally. Don't be shy with them. Hug them, kiss them, tell them you love them, that they are beautiful beyond belief. That is the greatest gift a father can give.Get intimate. Your the only father they have. Every relationship the take up with a man will be directly influenced by the relationship they have established or not established with you.