well one more reply just for you I suppose you typing a BIG lecture about 1 mispelled word! dont bother on wasting your breath, at your age you might pass out or die! Save yoyr energy and atleast give your hubby a good BLOW job and make him happy. I Beleve your condition is solved here
http://astroglide.com their is an complete section for menopausal women your age.
By the way it does come in easy to use pre-filled applicators and its water-based too. So now you can enjoy some real confort instead of that old Dryed out wrinkly old thing you have between your leggs.