Poemranker [Replying] Thu Nov 21 21:12:04 PST 2024

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I was looking for someone that was real, But this doesn't feel right. He will never feel the pain I feel crying myself to sleep at night. Because I feel so alone so used Will he ever realize that he is wrong. I keep lying to myself sayings its ok Longing for the day to sit in the sun holding hands with the one. Is it too much to ask to not be the one looking like an ass.

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27-Dec-05/9:11 PM

No, it's not too much to ask. My advice: Ditch him.

My other advice: In almost every relationship I've ever seen, there's a balance between the amount of respect you give and the amount of respect you get. If you treat him like a god, he HAS TO treat you like a god treats a bug - and squash you. If you claim some respect for yourself, he has to respect you. Next guy (and there will be a next guy), show him what you're good at, what you're better at than he is (and I don't mean that you're good at being a bug). Make him feel like he's screwed up from time to time. Make him feel like YOU'RE better than HE is. Then before you know it you'll be thirty and have a guy who thinks you're better than he is while you think he's better than you are. Then you win and get married. Trust me.

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