Poemranker [Replying] Sun May 19 20:45:01 PDT 2024

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After the travails of menopause and before the fogginess of senile dementia comes a lingering sourness of melancholy that mixes with sweet hours of friendship to produce the finest moments of life For men, maybe it comes after the keen edge of erectile imperative and before virility's illusion turns into a joke Then it's about relationship as we said it was all along but never believed

Dovina

15-May-05/7:51 AM

zodiac, Iâm responding to your several comments about relationship. I disagree that âtwo important aspects of the relationship are some common understanding of the nature, formed early on, and, yes, sexual compatibility.â Thatâs such a male thing to say and ignores a womanâs view altogether. Yes, women want good sex, and yes, we want some cerebral understanding of why we are in the relationship, but these are secondary. When you say, âI don't agree that emotional support is the most important aspect of relationshipping,â you have killed the most important thing to us and replaced it with your own needs and desires. As a woman who has loved a man, I had no desire to deny his needs and desires; I wanted to meet them because I favored his happiness equal with my own. So we worked together at compromises and gratification of each other. By the way, if what you want most is good sex, and I donât believe it is, then itâs going to be much better when she is emotionally thinking that you care a great deal about her emotions.

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